by Kay Spare Login | Oct 12, 2024 | kids, mental health, mind-body, next generation, parenting, parents, resilience, workingwithkids
Trick for Treat
Witches, wizards and pumpkins as well
Preparing October’s most sinister spell.
Jolly the Ghost with his floating routines
Weirdest this Spook School has ever seen.
“Who can be scary, spooky and mean?
Who can make children’s mothers turn green?
Go gather the loudest screams, moans and cries,
To win Spook School’s Ultimate Halloween prize.”
But as the All Hallows adventures began
Jolly the Ghost kept carefully to plan.
“No, I will not frighten in this competition
For I am Jolly, the great mind magician!”
Yet whispers abound ‘A ghost – Jolly’s not’
Resounded through Spook School and echoed a lot.
His techniques to feel happy, creative, ecstatic
Surely were not real examples of magic.
“Well,” Jolly explained, “a thought can bring terror
It can also bring laughter, so you see there’s an error!
Today, I’ll teach you real magic inside,
Preparing your most exciting Halloween ride.”
An apparition was conjured within Jolly’s belly
A calm orange pumpkin, fresh, vibrant, not smelly!
Jolly deeply inhaled October’s crisp air
Exhaling long, soft breath, relaxing all cares.
Jolly imagined the pumpkin was breathing
Expanding, contracting, a rhythm most pleasing.
While focusing more on the long outward breath
Jolly’s relaxation helped him to stress-less.
His ghost-mind relaxed more, drifting away
Feelings of floating above all today.
Over Spook City and all who he knows
Jolly feels freedom as his mind magic grows.
Imagineering a floating, relaxing sensation
Brings excitement of calmness into any occasion
In the Halloween spirit, this trick is a treat,
Pumpkin belly breathing is a spell to repeat
Belly Breathing pumpkins have more gifts for you,
Calm-on-demand – empowerment to do.
Jolly notices something while surfing through clouds
Sad Little Witch all alone, crying out loud.
Jolly breathes deeply, imagination stays calm
A sparkle magical wand appears in his ghostly palm
“The others from Spook School; gremlins and ghouls,
Are simply not following all our spook rules.”
I’m feeling so upset, what am I to do?”
“Let’s start by calming those sad feelings in you.
Use magical eyes to find feeling inside
And spin them around until sad feelings subside.”
“If feelings tumble one way or another to feel bad
Try reversing their direction til you are no longer sad”
Little Witch began describing her actual sensations
Intending a new spell for their evaporation.
Jolly’s ghost-wand spun sparkles into her pain
And From Little Witch’s cloud it started to rain!
Jolly the Ghost smiled “we are not done quite yet
We need to rebalance, so you no longer fret.”
Shifting and shuffling until Witch was sat straight
Jolly helped her adjust, until she felt great.
Little Witch started grinning and cackled with glee
“Can I adventure with you for mind-magic to see?”
And so this contagious thinking arrived into Spook School
As Jolly and Witch shared their mind magic tools.
Terror and calm are both possible now
Both magical thought forms when ghouls, know how.
A new competition is planned for next year
“We’ll teach calmness and fun-shine to balance each fear”
Imagineering can bring both terror or fun
So, let’s learn mind tricks for treats – easily done!
By Emily Elliott and Kay Cooke
All copyrights belong to The Happy Brain Co Ltd
by Kay Spare Login | Oct 1, 2024 | be well, brain aim, calm, Consciousness, focus, kids, mental health, mind-body, neurology, next generation, NLP, parenting, Personal growth, resilience, strategy, work well, workingwithkids
Every word, every utterance, carries an electro-chemical charge that affects your nervous system.
Words have power.
I can say the word ‘spider’ to 10 people and each person will build a unique image inside their minds. One that fits their personalised mental mapping/interpretation of that word.
I can say ‘vicious spider’ and some people will laugh; others will recoil in terror.
Some will imagine a cartoon spider, perhaps wielding a sword, others may see death jaws and claws.
The interpretation of any word is subjective. Yet that meaning will instigate a floodgate of FEELINGS i.e. neuro-chemicals.
Words are spells.
Many people are careless with words. Many people are wounded by words.
People are also strengthened by words.
Words carry powerful energies.
Tune into the intensity of your response to the following phrases.
- You should know better.
- You should have known better.
- You might know better next time.
If you don’t feel the shift in your brain’s processing of these word combinations, call me. You should. You should know the great power of word-smithing. Because you are being bombarded by wordsmiths.
Every. Single. Day. Be they cunning and manipulative OR sloppy and ignorant.
To know is to reclaim your brain.
TAKE AN EVERY DAY CONVERSATION ABOUT A NEWS ITEM:
“They were REALLY AWFULL. They are such ignorant bigots who deserve what they get.”
= Fact-less opinions with a poisoned arrow of invitation into heavy emotional entanglement.
“I didn’t enjoy that. I found myself willing them to open their hearts, but it didn’t happen.”
= Personal opinion with a tangle-free opportunity to respond.
“Well, that’s not for me!”
= Honest statement as a platform to move the conversation onward.
Know the difference between facts, feelings, opinion, and imagination.
FACTS
Verifiable by the outside world.
FEELINGS
The meaning that your brain interprets with positive or negative emotions.
OPINION
How you see the situation.
IMAGINATION
How the situation could become better or worse.
GET CLARITY! And help your young ones to know these differences!
But those words and phrases don’t just happen out loud. No! The most toxic words can happen inside your mind.
So you really should start listening to your everyday vocabulary. Make sure you include:
Owning your opinion (I think)
Owning your emotion (I feel)
Empower Yourself!
In week one of Happy Brain training, we include an exercise to wake up your word-smart filters. It’s called The Fun-Shine Alphabet. Try it!
Take each letter of the alphabet and find fabulous words that make your brain, mind and body feel shiny, happy and joyful. It’s a Mini Mind Spa. Flush some happy chemicals through your system each day and format some positive language into your auto-pilot.
The magic starts inside your mind.
In which direction you choose to utilise your word power is between you and your morality. But I wish for a more kind, compassionate, tolerant, peace-seeking, curious, explorative, loving, fun, happy, intelligent, and healthy society. And I hope you’ll join me in the intention and practice of positive transformation through word power.
Wouldn’t it be Amazing if we Aimed our brains in Beautiful, Creative, Displays of Energised, Feelings, Growing, Hopeful, Imaginations, Joyfully, Kind and Loving, with Marvellous, Nourishment, of Opulent Playfulness, Quirky Resilience, with Shiny,Terrific Understanding and Violet-light Wonderment that leads to X-cellent, Yummy, Zinging!!!
You’re welcome …
by Kay Spare Login | Sep 4, 2023 | be well, mental health, NLP, parenting, psychology, resilience, work well
What does ‘respect’ mean to you?
So often people tell me their happiness/unhappiness is related to whether they feel respected or disrespected. And I wonder how they measure those matters; are there rules?
I hear people complaining that they feel small if they don’t receive enough/certain respect. And I hear other people bragging that they feel big when they demand respect by making others bend their words or behaviours.
Big or small –using the matter of respect to gain validation is at best a hollow win and at worst, a weapon.
Awareness. Is key. If you want to nourish your mind, take note of your reaction to the concept of respect. What does it mean to you?
My antidote to ‘issues’ arising from this matter, is to look for shining examples of people who neither play big nor small. Instead, they self-regulate their internal responses to external stimuli and get on with flowing along their personal path.
How does your ‘respect-o-meter’ work?
by Kay Cooke | Mar 31, 2022 | be well
In 1988 Professor Fritz Strack experimented with the perceived happiness of people when reading a cartoon.
Two groups read the same cartoon – one group had each to hold a pencil in their teeth without lips touching, the other group had to hold a pencil between their lips with no teeth contact.
Guess which group ‘felt’ happier?
Have you tried it yet?
Research shows that smiling releases feel-good neurochemicals and it triggers our social-emotional brain to respond positively. Smiles are contagious.
Enjoy this poem by Spike Milligan
Smiling Is Infectious
Smiling is infectious, you catch it like the flu,
When someone smiled at me today,
I started smiling too.
I passed around the corner, and someone saw my grin.
When he smiled I realised,
I’d passed it on to him.
I thought about that smile, then I realised its worth.
A single smile, just like mine,
could travel round the earth.
So, if you feel a smile begin, don’t leave it undetected.
Let’s start an epidemic quick,
and get the world infected!
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